The
Empowering Value Of “Life-Giving” Assumptions About People
Marc Tumeinski
For the past several years, I have been a volunteer at a neighborhood food
pantry two blocks from my home. My Social Role Valorization (SRV) training has
helped me to understand much of what I see and experience as a volunteer at
the pantry. In this article, I will briefly describe the food pantry, and then
share some of what I have learned from an SRV perspective.
The pantry is run by a church and is located in three rooms of the church's
former school building. Its mission is to give food to people who live in the
neighborhood, or in neighborhoods where there is no pantry available. It is
an emergency food pantry, which means that people can come for food once a month,
and that the amount of food given out is not intended to last the entire month,
but to tide single people and families through a difficult time. People of all ages and ethnicities, speaking many different languages, come
to the pantry. They come because they are poor and need food. People come who
are retired, physically or intellectually impaired, new to the country, laid
off of work, not able to find work, or are working but struggling to survive
in this economy. Approximately 1200 to 1400 people come a month, of which 400
to 500 are children. Over the past several years, the numbers of people coming
to the pantry have risen dramatically, and will likely continue to do so into
the future. One thing I learned surprised me, although it probably should not have. The
pantry is an informal, loosely organized service run entirely by volunteers.
Yet I saw some of the same patterns of service-mediated devaluation at the pantry
as I have at the most organized, bureaucratic services staffed by paid ³professionals.² The most prominent pattern of social devaluation which I have seen is that
the physical setup and the typical routines of the pantry are highly likely
to cast most of the people who come for food into the devalued role of burden
of charity. For example, when people come into the pantry, they go up a flight
of stairs to one of those doors that is essentially cut in half horizontally;
the top half opens while the bottom half is left shut and locked. The volunteer
stands on one side of this door; the person on the other. This physical setup
symbolizes the barrier between ³us² and ³them.² Much of
the rest of the process reinforces this dichotomy. People have to show a government-issued ID to a volunteer, which is checked
against a file card to make sure they live in the neighborhood, and that they
have not yet come in for food that month. The volunteers pack one or two bags
of food for the person, depending on how many people are in their family. Few
volunteers ever ask the person what they want for food. The people cannot see
the shelves of food, as the shelves are out of sight from the door. The person
needs to sign a form, indicating that they received the food. Only then are
they handed bags containing their food. Whatever the reasons for this setup, from the perspective of the person, I
am sure it is potentially a highly degrading process. Many people who come to
the pantry are already embarrassed or ashamed by their need for help. Having
their government-issued ID checked, not being allowed to see or choose their
food, having to wait in line with other poor people, and so on, makes it highly
difficult for them to retain their dignity. The people who come to the pantry truly do need food, because they are poor.
Giving them food, even the relatively little that we are able to give, is at
least partly addressing a relevant need. But the way that it is done sets vulnerable
people up into socially devalued roles, and so at the same time, they are denied
some of the good things of life and are even further wounded. Most are further
isolated from the valued core of society. They are not meeting people in valued
status in valued locations and in a valued activity when they come to the pantry.
Their status in society is not enhanced but rather degraded by their manner
of getting food. Their self-image is lowered. Most are not given the opportunities
to develop their competencies; for example, by having relationships with other
people who are not poor and marginalized. Most of the people coming in for food
do not form mutually respectful relationships with the volunteers, even when
they come month after month. Much of the physical setup and many of the routines also negatively affect
the perceptions of the volunteers about the people coming in for food. I have
spent some time outside the pantry with many of the volunteers, and the ones
I have gotten to know are good-hearted, friendly people. Yet at the pantry,
I have seen many of these same volunteers yell at people who do not speak English.
I have heard them make jokes about them behind their backs; for example, that
people are driving home from the pantry in their expensive cars to their nice
houses. The implications are that they have money but will not spend it and
so steal food from the truly poor, and that they are too lazy to work. Some of the volunteers objectify what they are doing and so in a sense treat
the poor people coming in for help as objects, as being in the object role.
For example, some volunteers refer to people as numbers indicating how many
are in their family, e.g., ³who is the 3?² Such actions and attitudes
mask the humanity of the people coming to the pantry. Not all the volunteers
act in these ways of course, but enough do to be significant. I have heard volunteers gripe that they are sure that the people who come in
to the pantry are lying about how many children they have to get more food,
or are going to several other pantries besides ours, which many of the volunteers
consider ³cheating.² Yet the amount that people get at our ³emergency²
pantry, or any other for that matter, is hardly ever enough to feed a family
for more than three or four days. Most single people and families I know who
are significantly poor would have to go to more than one pantry to feed themselves
or their families, if they had no other means of getting food in a given month.
Besides, someone who truly did not need to go to a pantry to get food, most
likely would not go. The cost of social stigma and disrespect that they would
pay, plus the long time spent waiting in line and the relatively little food
they get, simply is not worth it. To reiterate, what I believe is happening at the pantry where I volunteer,
and many others, is that the devalued role of burden of charity is crafted and
perpetuated. Most of the pantry service practices communicate, encourage and
almost invite the volunteers to believe the common stereotypes about poor people,
i.e., that they are lazy, cheats, immoral, drains on the economy, and so on.
These negative perceptions then get translated into hurtful treatment. One personal benefit of the loose organization of the pantry has been that
I have been able to craft a role for myself that is at least a little more coherent
with some of the principles of SRV. Because there really is no set way that
people have to be given the food, sometimes I can do things in ways that are
somewhat more role-valorizing for them. For example, I tell people what we have
on the shelves and then ask what they want for food. In the hallway outside
the pantry, I put out food on tables for people to take as much as they want
of, without having to ask me or another volunteer. After checking with the food bank where we buy most of the food that we give
out, I was able to change the ³requirement² that had been in place
for many years that volunteers write down the government-issued social security
ID numbers for each person whom they signed in. This partly lessened the bureaucratic
nature of getting food. Another slightly more role-valorizing option which I
have taken advantage of a few times is to give out coupons which were redeemable
at a local grocery for food. These were not deviancy-imaged coupons meant only
for poor people; typical citizens could and did use them as well. I try to take the time to chat with each person who comes in. Such openness
has been amply rewarded with the opportunity to get to know a few of the people
a little better. I gave Papa a ride home once and heard about his life in Haiti.
Now when we see each other on the street, we stop and chat. Helping John up
and down the stairs with his food gave me the time to find out that he had been
a college professor and was still quite sharp, despite his disheveled appearance
and all his hard years living on the street. His advice to me about continuing
my education was very incisive. Their stories, and others', humble me in appreciation
of our common humanity and vulnerability. They also stare me in the face when,
despite my efforts, I too buy into the negative stereotypes and the devaluation
of poor and needy people, which happens more than I like to remember. As a helpful point of comparison with the services offered by the pantry where
I volunteer, which is typical of many food pantries in the US at least, I will
share two generally more role-valorizing examples of offering food and hospitality
to the poor. First, another pantry which I knew of used a traditional ³site-based²
approach, but in many ways offered a more positive and role-valorizing alternative
to the pantry I volunteer at. People who came to that pantry checked in, and
then were given a shopping cart to go through the aisles and pick out the food
they needed. There were limits to how much they could take of each food item,
but these limits were told to the people up front and they were expected to
manage it themselves. These practices were both more image- and competency-enhancing. As a second example, my wife and I have gotten to know a family in our neighborhood
who is almost totally dependent on government money for their survival. As many
such people do, they often run out of food toward the end of the month because
they do not have enough money. Every month or so, they will come by our home
when this happens. We offer them a meal and some groceries to take home. This
is a positive vision of at least one possible addition or even alternative to
the food pantry model, one which is also more role-valorizing. It still addresses
their need for food but is also enhancing to their image (i.e., they are neighbors
getting help from neighbors) and their competencies (i.e., they have opportunities
to build a relationship with us, and we with them). This article was just a brief look at some of the issues at the food pantry,
both positive and negative, from an SRV perspective. SRV has been a useful tool
which has helped me to: identify with the people who are coming to the pantry
and what their lives have been like; better understand the positive and negative
aspects of the service offered by the pantry; and carve out a role as a volunteer
that is coherent for me. Tumeinski, M. (2004). An SRV Look At Volunteering In A Food Pantry. SRV-VRS:
The International Social Role Valorization Journal, 5(1&2), 72-74.